People say you will find yourself in your late twenties and you will begin to discover what you like and what you don’t like and who are you as a person. I never thought about this until now, I’m a go with the flow type of person. However, recently I started to noticed little things here and there; before I would just brush it off, but now I have to say what’s on my mind.
You have to stand up for yourself, if you don’t, people will walk over you and push you around and tell you what you’re not doing right; meanwhile it’s a true reflection of themselves. They feel insecure about themselves and they want you to start feeling insecure too. Let’s not play the game where, you bring someone down because of your own insecurities.
Acknowledging and embracing this new transformation you have discovered is the first step of finding yourself. You will start to realize your worth, what you are not going to put up with, and actually looking at the red flags. You won’t let anyone tell you you’re not good enough. You will begin to feel free, and being free is a great feeling.